Friday, March 19, 2010

Update for the few who remain

My readers over the years have been some of the most encouraging people in my life. Lately, I've received a couple of nudges: "Julie, are you ever going to blog again?" and "Are you okay, I haven't seen you update your blog in ages." I can't tell you how nice that is when it happens. I hardly get over to blogs any more with all the social media short-cuts like Twitter updating and Facebook statuses (or is it stati?). I haven't given up on blogging though. It's just that right now, my life needs to be shielded from too much public scrutiny. When I get to the "other side" of the biggest hurdle in my life, I'll share much more freely (retroactively) because I have SO MANY IMPORTANT THOUGHTS ABOUT ALL OF IT. :) Or, more like, I'll be happy to catch you up on what you missed if you want to know.

In the meantime, here's a little bit of what's happening that I can share.

As I get nearer to 50 (I'm 48 right now), I find that I'm not afraid of that number at all. 40 was a bitch, 41 was downright depressing. But somehow, as I look ahead to 50, I'm excited about it. I'm ready to do the things I'm meant to do, which will include surfing.

I'm officially at the end of the homeschool years. My youngest two have opted for fulltime enrollment in the local high school starting in the fall. I'll have three kids essentially out of the house (two at Ohio State). That means only the dog and I will be home sipping tea and clicking the keyboard (or at least, I'll be doing those things and Rocky will be hogging the only pool of sunshine that leaks through the windows).

Brave Writer is growing... again. For some reason, speaking invites are tumbling into my in-box so I see planes in my future as well. The other day I was scrolling through my 8000 emails (I do not possess the will to delete) and felt this surge of gratitude for all the wonderful families I know through my business. For instance, in some cases I'm teaching the third, fourth and in one case, sixth child in a family. Incredible. And what commitment! No wonder we get tired or burned out or anxious about the outcome of all those years invested.

I've had a few people ask me how I feel about Obama, now that he's been doing his thing for a year. I still believe in the guy. You know why? He's doing just what I hoped he'd do when elected. So let me let you in on why I voted for Obama in the first place. It wasn't healthcare or Iraq that made me vote for him. The reason I walked dozens of miles and made hundreds of calls on his behalf? Barack Obama demonstrated to me his commitment to transcending the polarization of politics in America.

So what's happened? Both sides got even more polarized. The progressives want Obama to bully the R's and get his agenda passed (enough bi-partisan discussion they say!). The right tags Obama as socialist, dangerous and completely unworthy of negotiation. All the while, Obama won't give up his original vision: transcending the debate and expecting both sides to work together. It blows me away, frankly, that he still believes it's possible for two sides to create solutions they can both support. Obama hasn't forgotten his pledge to bring America together. It's not surprising that that commitment is being tested in the most extreme way.

This is what I like about Obama though. It's what made him a different candidate. It's what makes him a president I continue to admire and follow. The House vote on HCR is slated for Sunday. I look fwd to seeing how it all plays out. I think the year long debate was entirely appropriate.

And that's it from West Chester! Would love to hear how you all are doing in comments if you want to share.

Love,
Julie

15 comments:

Rick said...

Wanted to let you know that I shared your post on Reader/Buzz for this one sentence: "Barack Obama demonstrated to me his commitment to transcending the polarization of politics in America." It's what I see in just about everything you and I have ever interacted on, and why I would vote for you, too. :)

julieunplugged said...

Wow Rick. You couldn't have posted a more winning comment. Thank you. Makes me feel large and happy and glad you and I are friends, lo these many years. :D

Anne said...

- Loved reading this - Lots of changes are happening... in your world and the USA. Life is evolving for both of you... and I am sooo happy to read how your's is seeing a new light. :)

Kansas Bob said...

Thanks for the update Julie. So glad to read such a positive post about your life!

Here is what I recently emailed a friend:

"I am not against healthcare reform and really would not object to a Medicare-for-all plan.. I do not like Insurance companies and think the Canadian plan isn't all that bad.

What bothers me is all of the last-minute arm-twisting that is going on to get a bill reconciled that both houses of the legislature seem to be for. If it is so popular why all the power-plays this week?"


For more of my thoughts you can check out my recent blog post on the bill.

something akin to drowning said...

I'm still reading! Glad you posted again.

jo(e) said...

Thanks for the update! Often 140 characters just isn't enough ....

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NoVA Dad said...

I think the "few" that you referenced in the blog post title are actually still "many." Glad to hear things are going well for you - and I always enjoy our chats when our busy lives allow for them. Best to you!!

Mike said...

Julie...so glad to read this blog post and to hear that you are doing well although do see your FB posts as well...I miss your blog posts but certainly understand the seasons of life thing...I have another one leaving the nest this fall to U of Pitt...so enjoying this time of life...with a touch of sadness too.

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